How My Husband Supports Stress & Sleep with Clean, Non-Toxic Tools

I used to think I was the only one in our house who needed a solid wellness routine to feel like myself, but the truth is, stress doesnโ€™t discriminate. My husband, like so many men, carries a lot on his shoulders. Between work, parenting, and everything in between, I started noticing signs that his stress and sleep needed just as much attention as mine.

So we decided to be intentional about giving him tools that actually support his well-being and do it in a clean, non-toxic way.

Hereโ€™s what that looks like in our home:


๐ŸŒฟ CBD to the Rescue

My husband was hesitant at first, but now heโ€™s the one reminding me when weโ€™re low on his jellies. CBD has become his go-to for stress and helping his mind shift out of โ€œfight or flightโ€ mode.


๐Ÿ˜Œ Unwind Jellies for Evenings

Some nights are harder than others, and when his brain just wonโ€™t shut off, heโ€™ll take an Unwind Jelly. These are formulated with natural calming botanicals and cannabinoids that help relax both mind and body.

Theyโ€™re clean, theyโ€™re effective, and he doesnโ€™t wake up groggy… just rested.


๐Ÿ’ค Sleep Hygiene That Works

Weโ€™ve also made some simple changes to his evening routine that make a huge difference:

  • Magnesium supplements after dinner to relax muscles and support deep sleep.
  • Blue light blockers in the evening to help his body produce melatonin naturally.
  • No caffeine – he switched to decaf coffee and it has been a game changer for him.
  • A cool, dark bedroom and a sound machine or fan to help his body settle into true rest.

๐Ÿ’ง Hydration + Functional Support

Stress affects hydration and energy levels, so weโ€™re intentional about getting in electrolytes during the day (without the junk ingredients). He also adds a scoop of clean collagen to his morning smoothies for joint, gut, and skin support, because men deserve that glow too ๐Ÿ˜‰


Why It Matters

Supporting stress and sleep isn’t just a “womenโ€™s wellness” thing. Men need it too. And itโ€™s powerful to see the difference when they have access to tools that actually work.

Clean, natural, non-toxic options arenโ€™t just for me, theyโ€™re for him too. And I love that our wellness routines donโ€™t have to look the same, but they can still align in the values we share: safe, effective, and intentional care.


If your partner is navigating stress or struggling to sleep well, consider introducing one or two of these clean swaps. You might be surprised how quickly they notice a difference… mine sure did.

Need help choosing where to start? Iโ€™d love to share whatโ€™s worked for us ๐Ÿ’š

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My Go-To Tools for Winding Down at Night Naturally

Because we deserve to feel peace, not pressure, at the end of the day.

There was a time when my nights looked a lot like this:
Iโ€™d finally collapse into bed, physically drained, but somehow, my brain would go into overdrive. Iโ€™d be running through my to-do list, rethinking things I said (or didnโ€™t say), and mentally prepping for tomorrow before today had even ended.

Even though I was exhausted, true rest felt impossible.

Sound familiar?

Whether you’re a mom, a multitasker, or just someone trying to keep up with life, you know that the way we end our day matters. And over time, I realized that I couldnโ€™t keep hoping for rest. I had to create it.

Thatโ€™s when I started building a nighttime routine with natural tools that truly support my body and mind. These aren’t complicated or expensive. Theyโ€™re small, intentional habits that help signal to my nervous system: โ€œYouโ€™re safe. You can slow down now.โ€

So if youโ€™re looking to feel more peace and less panic in the evenings, here are my tried-and-true tools:


๐ŸŒฟ 1. Hemp (not pot) to Calm the Chaos

This one is non-negotiable for me now. A clean, full-spectrum CBD, THC, or CBG jelly in the evening has been a game-changer for my nervous system. It helps reduce that mental spiral so I can actually feel present and peaceful, whether Iโ€™m having quiet time alone or unwinding with my partner.

There are so many options out there, but not all CBD is created equal. I only use Green Compass because I trust their sourcing, their transparency, and the way their products actually work.


๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ 2. Gentle Movement or Breathwork

If Iโ€™ve had a high-stress day (and letโ€™s be real, most days qualify), I take five minutes to stretch on the floor or do some box breathing. Sometimes I just lie with my legs up the wall and breathe deeply. Itโ€™s simple, but it signals to my body: “You’re not in fight or flight anymore.”

You don’t have to be a yogi to do this. Just dim the lights, roll out a mat or towel, and move in a way that feels good.


๐Ÿ“ฑ 3. No Screens After 9 PM

This oneโ€™s tough, especially when the kids are finally asleep and you just want to scroll. But Iโ€™ve noticed a huge difference in my ability to fall asleep when I cut off blue light exposure and social media noise at least an hour before bed.

Instead, I try to do something that helps my brain unplug rather than rev up again.


๐Ÿต 4. Magnesium-Rich Tea or Mocktail

I love making a cozy magnesium mocktail or sipping herbal tea with ingredients like chamomile, passionflower, or lemon balm. Not only is it soothing, but magnesium helps relax your muscles and regulate the stress hormone cortisol.

Itโ€™s like a warm, gentle โ€œexhaleโ€ in a cup.


๐Ÿ“– 5. A Few Pages of a Book

Reading (something light or inspiring!) helps me shift out of the busy world in my brain and into a slower rhythm. Just a few pages can create the perfect transition between wakefulness and rest. Bonus: It makes my dreams way more interesting than if I had just scrolled reels before bed ๐Ÿ˜†


Iโ€™m not saying every night is perfect. Some nights still involve toddler wakeups, late-night dishes, or staying up too late talking with my husband. But having this toolbox has absolutely changed the way I experience my evenings.

I donโ€™t just collapse into bed anymore… I wind down intentionally.
And I fall asleep with more peace, fewer spirals, and a body that knows itโ€™s safe to rest.

If youโ€™re stuck in the cycle of going to bed exhausted but wired, try adding just one of these tools into your routine tonight. Then build from there.

You deserve a nighttime routine that supports you.

Tell me – what helps you wind down naturally? Iโ€™d love to add your ideas to my list!


Want to try the CBD thatโ€™s helped me the most? Iโ€™m always happy to share whatโ€™s worked for me and help you find what fits your needs. Just send me a message or check out this link for info + a free consult -> free consult here.

What Moms Really Want for Motherโ€™s Day (Hint: It’s Not a Mug)

Thereโ€™s a running joke among moms that every Motherโ€™s Day gift is either a mug that says โ€œBest Mom Everโ€ or a candle with a generic scent and a tag someone else filled out. And while we appreciate the sentiment (and yes, we are the best moms ever), most of us crave something much deeper:

Rest. Relaxation. And a moment to ourselves.

Letโ€™s be honest โ€” motherhood is the most beautiful, exhausting, emotionally-charged job on the planet. Whether youโ€™re a mom of littles who hasnโ€™t had an uninterrupted nightโ€™s sleep in years, or a seasoned mama still doing all the things for everyone around her, one universal truth stands: we are tired.

This year, instead of flowers that wilt or a brunch reservation that still requires wrangling toddlers, give the moms (and mothers of your children) in your life what they really want: a reason to exhale.

Introducing: The Motherโ€™s Day Relaxation Bundle

Available now through May 11th (or while supplies last)

This limited-edition bundle is like a warm hug, a deep breath, and a โ€œgo take a napโ€ โ€” all wrapped into one beautifully curated gift. Itโ€™s thoughtfully designed to support rest, relaxation, and radiant health from the inside out.

Hereโ€™s whatโ€™s inside:


๐Ÿซ 3 Weeks of Chocolate Collagen

Yes, chocolate. This delicious, dairy-free collagen isnโ€™t just a treat โ€” itโ€™s a functional beauty and wellness supplement designed to support skin, hair, joints, and gut health. Every mom deserves to glow from the inside out.


๐ŸŒฟ Unwind Jellies

Think of these as stress relief in a gummy. Infused with clean hemp and calming botanicals, Unwind Jellies help ease tension, support mood balance, and encourage those “I can breathe again” moments we all crave after a long day.


๐ŸŒ™ Sleep Jellies

Because counting sheep just isnโ€™t cutting it. These jellies are packed with clean CBN to help you fall asleep faster, stay asleep longer, and wake up feeling like a human (not a zombie).


๐Ÿ˜ด A Silky Sleep Mask

Light-blocking, ultra-soft, and surprisingly luxurious. Itโ€™s the finishing touch to create a peaceful bedtime routine that actually works โ€” because letโ€™s face it, most moms havenโ€™t bought anything for themselves in months.


๐Ÿ’ฐ And the Best Part?

Itโ€™s almost HALF OFF retail price and ships free โ€” so you can gift generously without the guilt.

Whether youโ€™re shopping for your mom, your sister, your spouse, or yourself (because, letโ€™s be real, you deserve this), this bundle is the perfect way to say:

โ€œYou give so much. This is just for you.โ€


๐ŸŒธ Donโ€™t Wait

This bundle is only available through May 11th or while supplies last โ€” and last yearโ€™s Mother’s Day specials sold out fast.

Let this be the year we stop asking moms what they want and start giving them what they actually need:
Better sleep. Less stress. And a little bit of chocolate.

๐Ÿ‘‰ Grab the Motherโ€™s Day Relaxation Bundle now prefilled shopping cart w/ $10 off for new clients!

Solving Sleep Struggles

You guys… sleep is super important ๐Ÿ’คโœจ

I listen to a podcast all about health & wellness when I’m running & just about every guest at some point speaks to the importance of getting enough, QUALITY, sleep. It is crucial for your health for a few reasons…

1. Stay Healthy ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ’ช

Sleep helps your body repair & stay strong. It can keep your heart healthy and boost your immune system. Basically, more sleep means fewer sick days!

2. Boost Your Brainpower ๐Ÿง โšก

Your brain needs sleep to think clearly, remember stuff, & solve problems. Less sleep = more forgetful moments and brain fog.

3. Mood Magic ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ˜Š

Ever notice how cranky you get when you’re tired? Sleep helps you stay happy & handle stress better. More sleep, more smiles!

4. Be a Star Performer ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŽฏ

Whether youโ€™re studying, working, or playing sports, sleep helps you do your best. You’ll be more focused & make fewer mistakes.

5. Weight Control ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ‹๏ธ

Sleep affects your hunger hormones. Lack of sleep can make you crave junk food. Sleeping well helps you make healthier food choices.

6. Live Longer ๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธโค๏ธ

Good sleep habits can add years to your life. It keeps you healthy & full of energy for the long haul.

I have some tips for better sleep for anyone who wants them! Just comment SLEEP & I’ll send them right over.

No gatekeeping here though… the absolute #1 thing that has completely changed my sleep is the half a jelly I take at night when I get in bed. I went from taking 30-60+ minutes to fall asleep & waking several times in the night to falling asleep quickly (without using Gilmore Girls or a sleep meditation) & I stay asleep ALL NIGHT! I wake up feeling refreshed & I actually have energy during the day. I can’t remember the last time I felt like that ๐Ÿ™Œ

If you want to grab these jellies, I’ll link them here -> if you take half like I do, this is a 2 month supply, & you’re getting my 20% discount + $10 off ๐Ÿ˜โžก๏ธhttps://jessicaderico.greencompassglobal.com/cart/102084

Remember, good sleep = a happier, healthier you! ๐Ÿ˜ด๐ŸŒ™

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Slay your Sleep Struggles

Safe Swaps for Melatonin

I have always struggled with sleep. So, I’ve tried A LOT of safe sleep aid products.

I have a really hard time turning my brain off at night so it takes me a LONG time to fall asleep. I’m also a light sleeper, so little things wake me, and then I have trouble falling back asleep. I’ve been learning about the importance of sleep lately and the effects sleep deprivation have on your daily life and it’s pretty scary. The more “sleep debt” you have, the less executive function you have during the day. This means it’s harder to make decisions, think, and function as a human… Lack of sleep can even increase your risk of dying earlier than those who get enough sleep. Sleep is truly not something to be taken lightly. But, neither are the long term side effects of Melatonin. Despite my very serious sleep struggles, I would not touch melatonin. So, what are some safe alternatives? I’m glad you asked!

What I’ve used for the kids and/or myself:

Lavender Essential Oil – rolled on bottom of feet and/or back of neck

Earthley’s Sleepy Time Tincture – dropped in mouth

Earthley’s Goodnight Lotion – rubbed on tummy and legs

Organic Tart Cherry Juice – consumed during the day

Epsom Salt baths before bed – in bath

Green Compass Sleep Boost – taken orally

Green Compass Sleep Jellies – consumed before bed (would recommend for age 2+ starting with 1/4 jelly)

Green Compass Full Spectrum Nano Jellies – consumed before bed (would recommend for age 5+ starting with 1/4 jelly)

My thoughts/experiences:

Lavender oil used on Willow – Noticed no improvement

Earthley’s Sleepy Time Tincture – Noticed no improvement for Willow. Helps me fall and stay asleep a little bit. Helps Adeline fall and stay asleep as far as I can tell.

Eathley’s Goodnight Lotion – Noticed no improvement for Willow. Adeline loves it. Does nothing for me.

Organic Tart Cherry Juice – Noticed no improvement for Willow.

Epsom Salt baths before bed – Noticed no improvement for sleeping but does help calm both kids and make bedtime routine easier.

Green Compass Sleep Boost – Helps me fall and stay asleep more than the Earthly tincture but not as well as the jellies.

Green Compass Sleep Jellies – These work amazingly. They are my favorite thing I’ve used for myself. These help me sleep the best of anything I’ve tried. I fall asleep faster and stay asleep ALL NIGHT!

Green Compass Full Spectrum Nano Jellies – These also work amazingly. They knock me out really fast and put me into a DEEP sleep. If you want a really good, restorative deep sleep, these are for you.

Links (it means the world to my family when you use my links to shop!):

Earthley – https://earthley.com/ref/dericoj/

Cherry Juice –https://amzn.to/3SUFwKI

Green Compass – https://jessicaderico.greencompassglobal.com/share/573327

*the Green Compass link gets you $10 off your first order*

Safe Swaps for Melatonin

I’ve seen so many desperate mommas lately looking for help with either their sleep or their kids’ sleep. Anyone who knows me personally knows my 16 month old Willow has struggled with sleep since she was born. I also have never been a good sleeper with my biggest issue being falling asleep. Because of this, I’ve tried A LOT of safe sleep aid products for myself and Willow.

What I’ve used for the girls and/or myself:

Lavender Essential Oil – rolled on bottom of feet

Earthley’s Sleepy Time Tincture – dropped in mouth

Earthley’s Goodnight Lotion – rubbed on tummy and legs

Organic Tart Cherry Juice – consumed during the day

Epsom Salt baths before bed – in bath

Green Compass Sleep Boost – in belly button

Green Compass Sleep Jellies – consumed before bed (would recommend for age 3+ starting with 1/4 jelly)

My thoughts/experiences:

Lavender oil used on Willow & myself – Noticed no improvement

Earthley’s Sleepy Time Tincture – Noticed no improvement for Willow. Helps me fall and stay asleep but not the best thing I’ve tried. Helps Adeline fall and stay asleep.

Eathley’s Goodnight Lotion – Noticed no improvement for Willow. Adeline loves it for her growing pains.

Organic Tart Cherry Juice – Noticed no improvement for Willow.

Epsom Salt baths before bed – Noticed no improvement for sleeping but does help calm both kids and make bedtime routine a little easier.

Green Compass Sleep Boost – The FIRST thing that has genuinely improved Willow’s sleep. Since starting it she went from waking 4-5 times a night to 1-2 and sleeping 2-3 hour stretches to over 6! All the hallelujah hands for this one ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ

Green Compass Sleep Jellies – Only tried myself so far and they work amazingly. These help me fall and stay asleep the best of anything I’ve tried.

Links (it means the world to my family when you use my links to shop!):

$10 off Green Compass – https://jessicaderico.greencompassglobal.com/share/573327

Cherry Juice – https://amzn.to/3SUFwKI

Epsom Salt – https://amzn.to/49I5tCW

Earthley – https://earthley.com/ref/dericoj/

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Stay well!